On May 24th Venus goddess of love opposes Mars god of war (and sex). And while any interaction between astrology’s lovers is hot hot hot, you do need to be little careful not to get burned. You see, neither Venus nor Mars are seeing things very clearly at the moment. Venus in Gemini is sailing too close to the sun and letting her sharpish ego get the best of her… And Mars is backtracking through Sagittarius, frustrated and unsure how to handle the situation. Remember the song "I can't get no…satisfaction”? You may be feeling a little like that now. But this too shall pass… Here’s what to expect, how to make the best of it and why.
Things you can expect:
- Everyone getting a little hot under the collar… Lovers’ quarrels.
- Blowing hot and cold, swinging between anger and affection, love and hate
- A strong attraction to someone who is incompatible with you, not interested, a bad boy/ girl or simply unavailable.
- Jealousy, competitiveness and unfaithfulness as your - or someone else’s - desires go AWOL.
- An all or nothing attitude to love…
- Relationship dilemmas: do you cross the line or stay friends?
- Being out of synch with your lover…
Here’s how you can best handle this energy:
- Step out of an “either or” frame of mind. It’s only an illusion.
- Strive for a balance between cooperation versus competition, love versus sex, affection versus anger, quality versus speed.
- Don’t make important decisions until passions cool down.
- Find physical outlets for your energy such as sports, arts, crafts and business!
- Try your daily love tarot horoscope for some added perspective!
There is a deeper meaning to this Venus-Mars opposition. Get it by asking yourself:
- Do your actions reflect what you value most? Or have you wandered so far off the mark that you lost sight of what’s important?
- Do your relationships empower you to go after what you want? Or are you compromising too much?
- Are you being too pushy? If so this is your chance to see how others truly feel about it!
- Mars and Venus conjoined in 2015, marking a new beginning in the relationship sphere. Now it’s time to evaluate where this has led you. (For instance, are you too far down the me-first or the doormat end of the spectrum?) If you don’t like where you are, time to do something about it!
- What do you seek in relationship? Find out in Venus in love: where does Cupid strike? Also check out Your Mars sign and your ideal man!
What does Venus opposite Mars mean for your Star-Sign?
Mars and Venus at loggerheads is the very definition of passion. Where can you feel the Mars-Venus heat? Check your star-sign and find out! If you find yourself faced with an impossible dilemma, talk to one of our expert psychics on 0207 111 6384! They are sure to bring some much needed perspective (and answers!) to things.
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